” For unless love becomes tenderness – the connective tissues of love – it never becomes transformational . The tender doesnt happen tomorrow – only now.” ~ Gregory Boyle
Every species existing in the universe has a hunger for compassion , love and kidness. Where once everyone was imbibe with the morals of treating evrybody with the sense of oneness is slowly eroding . So hauntingly , the world has changed and started considering their needs and encitement more important than the pain and suffering being endured by the ones who suffer .
A child born to a mother wants to share his / her world by being just next to them. But young animals are being deprived of this love at the begining of their birth , just to meet the commercial needs of our society. How can we keep ourselves healthy by snatching somebody’s life. Parent’s are often considered safety net of their children . Where safety net on one side has advantage, it bears disadvantage too. Isn’t it necessary for every child to undergo nourishment from their parent be it human or animals? ” love without fear is the most beautiful and transformational gift we can give and receive ”
Not always a voice need to be uttered for its safety and well being . We humans despite bearing senses and emotions , are not able to recognize the pain they undergo.
It is just not about keeping animals off your plate rather it is also about treating animals with love , care and compassion. Alot I come across in my day today life , about animals being tourtured for their personal benifits . There are endless instances to quote , some of them being below~ 1.In the arid and semi arid regions of rajasthan – 4 accused were seen chopping off 3 legs of a dog . The dog later died due to excessive bleeding . The 4 were believed to have killed the dog on suspicion that it had killed their goat . 2. A monkey was hung and beaten to death in Telangana. 3. A street dog was beaten , tied to scooter and then thriwn off the 2nd floor in Ludhiana. 4. The death of pregnant elephant after it was made to forcefully consume fruit laced with the firecrackers.
The word HUMANITY comes from human . So ultimately it is us who can give justice to them by not hurting them . Share your love with them and I can assure you that they will revert in abundance .
We all share identical needs for love . The universe is itself working on law of attraction . What you give is what you receive . Each one of us is interconnected and that means we belong to each other . Would not it be great and humble if we share small act of kindness to change the world to be better place for them . If not halted effectively and immediately , we will have disastrous consequences on the fabric of our country .
An act of kidness is all they need ❣.
We can never really know a person because people are like clothes , they can change according to the weather . But what doesn’t change is SOUL . Soul remains forever.
Time flies and so do people. But something thats real , never walks away . There comes a time when people part away for months , years but consistency and reassuarance paves way and returns them to whom they were holding once.
Its fun to be around somebody with whom you can even enjoy the silence , knowing that your life is so much better , happier – just because they EXIST❣. No matter , how sad their world may be , they will still show up for you, love you and smile.
In these ordinary to extraordinary time , where its hard to find people who are driven to extreme height of madness, love the loudest , the one that can warm your heart with a smile or a laugh, such people are an example of admiration and inspiration , that give their love to ease someone else’s pain.
If there is something I got inspired by such heros , its watching them that how big they love and if they love , THEIR ISN’T A CHANCE TO WONDER.
Just a random thought that cut cross my head . Often rolling around such persons will make you feel good , as their close proximity will heal you and your heart with time will be RENEWED .
A person can learn to hide or put on mask , but souls carve connections and soul always recognizes and remember the ones that saw them when no one else did and loved them as dearly as their own .
There was a poor man who wanted some money . Somehow he had heard that if he could get hold of a ghost , he might command him to bring money or anything else he liked; so he was very anxiousto get hold of a ghost . He went about searching for a man who would give him a ghost and at last he found a sage who could give him a ghost. When he requested for a ghost , the sage asked him what he would do with a ghost. ‘ I want a ghost to work for me . Teach me how to get hold of one , sir. I desire it very much ‘, replied the man . But the sage said : dont disturb your self . The next day the man went again to the sage and began to weep and pray: ‘give me ghost . I must have a ghost , to help me.’ At last the sage was disgusted and said : “Take this charm , repeat this magic word and ghost will come. And whtever you say to him he will do. But beware! They are terrible beings and must be kept continually busy. If you fail to give him work, he will take your life.” The man replied : ” thst is easy.I can give him work for his whole life.”
Then he went to a forest and after a long repetition of the magic word , a huge ghost appeared before him and said : ‘ I am a ghost . I hsve been conquered by your magic , but you must keep me constantly employed. The moment you fail to give me work I will kill you.’ The man said – ” Build me a palace , ” ” bring me money” . Here is your money – said the ghost . Anything more? Now the man began to be frightened and though he could give him nothing more to do. The ghost said- ” give me something to do or i will eat you up .” The poor man could find no other occupation for him and was frightened. So he ran and ran and at last reached the sage and said – ” oh sir , save my life !.” The sage asked him what the matter was and the man replied – ” i have nothing to give the ghost to do . Everything i tell him to do , he does it in a moment .
The sage said – “i will find a way out. Look at the dog with the curly tail . Draw your sword quickly snd cut the tail off and give it to the ghost to straighten out.” The man cut off the dog’s tail and gave it to ghost , saying – ” STRAIGHTEN THAT OUT FOR ME.” The ghost took it and slowly and carefully strsightened it out , but as soon as he let it go, it instantly curled up again. So he went on for days and days , until he was exhausted and said : ” I was never in such trouble before in my life . I am an old veteran ghost , but never before was I in such a trouble. I will make a compromise with you . You let me off and i will let you keep all i have given you and will promise not to harm you .” The man was much pleased and accepted the offer gladly.
Swami Vivekanand explains: The world is like a dog’s curly tail and people have been striving to straighten it out for hundred of years. But when they let it go , it curls up again. How could it be otherwise? So we shoyld always remember the instance of a curly tail of a dog. We need not worry or make ourselves sleepless about the world . It will go on without each of us. Our worries will not help it. But when we stop worrying about the world , then alone we will be able to work well. It is the level- headed man , the calm man of good judgment and cool nerves, of great smypathy and love , who does good work and so does to himself . The one who is complaining all the time is foolish and has no sympathy. He can never straighten out the world , nor can he improve himself.
It is so therapeutic to share bond with you💞. I can well understand how it feels to miss someone – especially when it is about US 🥰. and when its about someone with whom we wish to devote every single second. Not just you , I too miss you😔 and couldn’t resist from ache , knowing that you were looking and was in continous wait for those sweet gestures we used to share every morning .
Trust me , I couldn’t love you as much you do but I can allocate my little self just to keep you away from all the sufferings that my BEING PART can commit.
I LOVE YOU❣
An autobiography of Late Shri Vikram Batra (war hero) and Dimple cheema ji , that can easily shread the heart of millions around and evenly demonstrates love that is apocalyptic.
Their epic moment began when the duo met at Punjab University (1995 India) and fell in love with each other. During the ongoing first year of his education, he got enrolled in Indian Military Academy (IMA) and went to follow his aspirations . There wasn’t even a single day when responsibility of choosing and loving each other has ever faded till date beside having so much distance in between.
An another chapter was added to their life during kargil conflict, where Vikram Batra ji got martyred for sake of preserving and restoring the territories occupied by the Pakistan army. Before 1999 war , vikram Batra ji took 4 vows ( an important marriage ceremony and no marriage is accomplished without doing this in India) in order to give reassuance to their relationship.
Sometimes there are no happy endings but the beauty lies in reassurance even knowing that the two person holds very different paths , which perhaps would sometimes lead to door of dissappointment , loss and pain. So hauntingly accurate of our world today , the deep longing to have that person to stay beside , at times leaves the heart DRY and CRY and THE SOUL TO BLEED. ( Till date Dimple cheema ji is unmarried and decided to continue her life as a widow of Late Shri Vikram Batra ji)
Their story is exceptionally epic and so are they . No matter how different your paths may be, but when you choose each other – you must abandon the thought of being self and choose to walk through the paths that lead you to the doors , you together can open and that’s the door that leads to greater trust.
Scientist say that hugging is a form of communication because it can say things you dodn't have the words for . It is an emotional lift , in a world full of rocks and hard places.
Life is temporary , love is not. We are completely dependent upon our mother’s care from the very early stage of our growth and continue to until we are able to take care of ourself. We need to visualise that our existence is so dependent that the very first thing we do is suck milk from our mother’s breast. That is the expression of love and embracment where we feel naturally close to her and if not embraced our development ,be it mentally or physically will be impaired and not fully developed.
Alike , cows produce milk for same reason as human mothers to nourish their babies. But we humans are so selfish that we never realize that our actions are way to cruelty. For us, animals are forced to endure the horrors – throats being cut , abused, raped just to meet our everyday essential. We need to envisage their pain ,get through their head and understand that like us they want freedon . Isn’t it necessary to realize who they are and how they suffer before their lives are stolen .
To embrace and love is ultimately the MIRACLE of life, not only for higher forms of life but also for many of microscopic existence. We need to learn that when it comes to pain and suffering , all beings are same – be it animals or humans. Never kill to keep yourself healthy.
”Wrong is wrong, Even if everyone is doing it. Right is right , Even if no one is doing it.”
We all share identical need for love. No matter how all we are created – rich, poor,strong,impoverished,superior ,underpriveleged etc, there is no significant DIVISION between us. It is foolish to dwell on external differences because our basic nature are same. It is us who builds up the ecosystem , so it is our responsibility to snuggle and give a happy and peacfull life to species around by not torturing and harming them .” Earth is our home and we need to preserve and defend this home of ours by realising and understanding the meaning of UNIVERSAL ALTRUISM.”
”THERE IS NO NEED FOR TEMPLES, NO NEED FOR COMPLICATED PHILOSOPHY . OUR OWN BRAIN ,OUR OWN HEART IS OUR TEMPLE THE PHILOSOPHY IS KINDNESS.” ~Dalai Lama
Being a father means – being a leader , a role model and an example of strength , courage and compassion ❣.
So , on this father day I will not be writing about my Dadda❣ rather I will be sharing what I have discovered in the past a few days during my ongoing struggle .
Children are often recognized by the genes they share with their parent but rare of us know that hidden treasure of love aren’t any mixed signals rather it is a conviction that the person is expecting and devoting for each other . A little while back i was in the lowest place where all i can undergo was pain and suffering , just praying for my dadda to recover soon . Well in this journey of my father’s recovery major chunk of people have a greater role but the individual who stood by my side like a Father has been one of the greatest thing that’s ever happened to me and that’s my – BADDE PAPA❣.
To my badde papa❣with love and affection – How could I define beside the fact that we have nothing in common to share yet ” MY HEART AND YOUR HEART ARE VERY OLD FRIENDS.” Thank you for being next to me at my lowest ebb, when I was overcrowded with the fear and was demoralised with the crushed self image that the only possibility I could figure out was You Badde Papa❣. You came through whole my way (instead of halfway) and didnt let me walk alone during those tough hours rather you preffered to walk alongside know matter what . I am blessed to have you and will always reminisce for all your support , sacrifices, always attending my calls no matter how busy you were , for always being in my corner , for considering my happiness and wellness as much of yours ❣. ( ” Badde papa” is a word used by children for father’s elder brother in India . He is working as an Adminstrator and my dadda’s whole treatment was under his surveillance . Though we dodnt share common gene pool like blood realtion but ”WHEN ITS REAL , YOU CANNOT WALK AWAY.” )
In nutshell , i want to convey that Social relations should also be given acceptance . Biological relations are insufficient to accomodate all types of social relations and that is why we need social relations as well.
Dodnt you worry about the distance , I am right there if you get lonely .
I believe we will have it good in times to come ❣
It was 10:12 AM in the morning when I found the most reasonable picture to capture in my phone , the picture which exhibits alot many thoughts . I had been desperately waiting from past three days to take a perfect shot , Alas I stayed out of reach as I was nonplussed. The motive behind sharing this snap is to let us all know that – A bird never lose its dignity in whatever state it may be.