It is so therapeutic to share bond with you💞. I can well understand how it feels to miss someone – especially when it is about US 🥰. and when its about someone with whom we wish to devote every single second. Not just you , I too miss you😔 and couldn’t resist from ache , knowing that you were looking and was in continous wait for those sweet gestures we used to share every morning .
Trust me , I couldn’t love you as much you do but I can allocate my little self just to keep you away from all the sufferings that my BEING PART can commit.
An autobiography of Late Shri Vikram Batra (war hero) and Dimple cheema ji , that can easily shread the heart of millions around and evenly demonstrates love that is apocalyptic.
Their epic moment began when the duo met at Punjab University (1995 India) and fell in love with each other. During the ongoing first year of his education, he got enrolled in Indian Military Academy (IMA) and went to follow his aspirations . There wasn’t even a single day when responsibility of choosing and loving each other has ever faded till date beside having so much distance in between.
An another chapter was added to their life during kargil conflict, where Vikram Batra ji got martyred for sake of preserving and restoring the territories occupied by the Pakistan army. Before 1999 war , vikram Batra ji took 4 vows ( an important marriage ceremony and no marriage is accomplished without doing this in India) in order to give reassuance to their relationship.
Sometimes there are no happy endings but the beauty lies in reassurance even knowing that the two person holds very different paths , which perhaps would sometimes lead to door of dissappointment , loss and pain. So hauntingly accurate of our world today , the deep longing to have that person to stay beside , at times leaves the heart DRY and CRY and THE SOUL TO BLEED. ( Till date Dimple cheema ji is unmarried and decided to continue her life as a widow of Late Shri Vikram Batra ji)
Their story is exceptionally epic and so are they . No matter how different your paths may be, but when you choose each other – you must abandon the thought of being self and choose to walk through the paths that lead you to the doors , you together can open and that’s the door that leads to greater trust.
Scientist say that hugging is a form of communication because it can say things you dodn't have the words for . It is an emotional lift , in a world full of rocks and hard places.
Life is temporary , love is not. We are completely dependent upon our mother’s care from the very early stage of our growth and continue to until we are able to take care of ourself. We need to visualise that our existence is so dependent that the very first thing we do is suck milk from our mother’s breast. That is the expression of love and embracment where we feel naturally close to her and if not embraced our development ,be it mentally or physically will be impaired and not fully developed.
Alike , cows produce milk for same reason as human mothers to nourish their babies. But we humans are so selfish that we never realize that our actions are way to cruelty. For us, animals are forced to endure the horrors – throats being cut , abused, raped just to meet our everyday essential. We need to envisage their pain ,get through their head and understand that like us they want freedon . Isn’t it necessary to realize who they are and how they suffer before their lives are stolen .
To embrace and love is ultimately the MIRACLE of life, not only for higher forms of life but also for many of microscopic existence. We need to learn that when it comes to pain and suffering , all beings are same – be it animals or humans. Never kill to keep yourself healthy.
”Wrong is wrong, Even if everyone is doing it. Right is right , Even if no one is doing it.”
We all share identical need for love. No matter how all we are created – rich, poor,strong,impoverished,superior ,underpriveleged etc, there is no significant DIVISION between us. It is foolish to dwell on external differences because our basic nature are same. It is us who builds up the ecosystem , so it is our responsibility to snuggle and give a happy and peacfull life to species around by not torturing and harming them .” Earth is our home and we need to preserve and defend this home of ours by realising and understanding the meaning of UNIVERSAL ALTRUISM.”
Remember-
”THERE IS NO NEED FOR TEMPLES, NO NEED FOR COMPLICATED PHILOSOPHY . OUR OWN BRAIN ,OUR OWN HEART IS OUR TEMPLE THE PHILOSOPHY IS KINDNESS.” ~Dalai Lama
Being a father means – being a leader , a role model and an example of strength , courage and compassion ❣.
So , on this father day I will not be writing about my Dadda❣ rather I will be sharing what I have discovered in the past a few days during my ongoing struggle .
Children are often recognized by the genes they share with their parent but rare of us know that hidden treasure of love aren’t any mixed signals rather it is a conviction that the person is expecting and devoting for each other . A little while back i was in the lowest place where all i can undergo was pain and suffering , just praying for my dadda to recover soon . Well in this journey of my father’s recovery major chunk of people have a greater role but the individual who stood by my side like a Father has been one of the greatest thing that’s ever happened to me and that’s my – BADDE PAPA❣.
To my badde papa❣with love and affection – How could I define beside the fact that we have nothing in common to share yet ” MY HEART AND YOUR HEART ARE VERY OLD FRIENDS.” Thank you for being next to me at my lowest ebb, when I was overcrowded with the fear and was demoralised with the crushed self image that the only possibility I could figure out was You Badde Papa❣. You came through whole my way (instead of halfway) and didnt let me walk alone during those tough hours rather you preffered to walk alongside know matter what . I am blessed to have you and will always reminisce for all your support , sacrifices, always attending my calls no matter how busy you were , for always being in my corner , for considering my happiness and wellness as much of yours ❣. ( ” Badde papa” is a word used by children for father’s elder brother in India . He is working as an Adminstrator and my dadda’s whole treatment was under his surveillance . Though we dodnt share common gene pool like blood realtion but ”WHEN ITS REAL , YOU CANNOT WALK AWAY.” )
In nutshell , i want to convey that Social relations should also be given acceptance . Biological relations are insufficient to accomodate all types of social relations and that is why we need social relations as well.
Dodnt you worry about the distance , I am right there if you get lonely .
I believe we will have it good in times to come ❣
Hello and good afternoon to all my inhabitants ❣ I had been away from my blog from past 2 days and will be for couple of more days , as my father has been diagnosed with Acute Febrile Illness ( means fever that sustains for weeks probably 2-3 weeks). The disease can sometimes include infections and elevation in temperature is observed .
Me and my family are yet not on the track but I believe universe will reflect and leave good impression day after day . Thank you universe ❣for good health.
I will get back to you all soon once everything will be okay .
It was 10:12 AM in the morning when I found the most reasonable picture to capture in my phone , the picture which exhibits alot many thoughts . I had been desperately waiting from past three days to take a perfect shot , Alas I stayed out of reach as I was nonplussed. The motive behind sharing this snap is to let us all know that – A bird never lose its dignity in whatever state it may be.
Year 2020 and the ongoing year has been hard and so challenging for all of us . Many frontline workers putting their life at stake, above all letting their insecurities to sleep , well cordinating to thrive this long standing pandemic , so that one day all their hard work counts worth.
Life is inexplicably beautiful bearing innumerable aspect around which a human life is being surrounded. Everyday we get up in the morning – see those enchanting rays,wind blowing,birds chirping,food,life,strength and obviously the joy of living. Have not it been the provider for so many beautiful things we observe every now and then – how could human existence be?
In past a few years man as well as mother nature have undergone infinite changes. Man alone produces and there have been a creative exchange between man and environment. As man satisfy himself through production, he transform the nature as well as transform himself too. Desire to control the nature has been to such an extent that consequences were never felt.
They say – ” Not only does the mother give birth to her child , through the child the mother herself is born.”
Observing the present scenario – I personally feel that the nature is retreating and human beings are now entirely dependent on oxygen cylinders. We all were not prepared to be treated this way but now in these rigid moments only our actions can express what our words cannnot. That day is not too far when common masses like us would be standing in a queue to buy an ”AIR BOTTLE.”
Where many countries have abled to surpass and beat these cruel moments , India is still struggling with this long standing pandemic. To fight the battle is not only in the hands of Government or Health care workers , rather it is all upto everyone of ”Us” who builds up the society . The time is not to criticize the Governnent and play politics over it, preferably we need to look at our action and see how much are we contributing to knock down the pandemic.
Let us respect 🙏who are providing every essential service by not stepping out until and unless it is so necessary. Also interwine together and equip Mother Nature by planting tress . Perhaps it would be the best way in empowering the MOTHER EARTH through its personal transformation🌍
AN INTROVERT EMPATH🙏 